change

today i realised something about change. i guess everyone change's, however you probably don't notice as you change. some people just cant win. if people change in ways others don't like they get slated for it, for instance not acting as they did five years ago. but on the other hand almost everyday i see someone get told to 'grow up'. well hang one everyone. you can't have it both ways, do you want everyone to be immature or for everyone to grow up? yes healthy inbetween, i get that. but healthy inbetween is different for everyone isnt it?

its funny really how everyone looks at eachother and how everyone has a different take on everything. for instance there are people i think should grow up, but then there are probably people that think differently of the same people. what is it with our society? its all so conflicting. i blame the media. you get all the bad press about going out having fun, these people should 'grow up' and 'sort themselves out' well who says that there is anything to sort out? who gets to dictate that? and then there's those boring tv people who need to 'loosen up' well whats wrong with them being up tight? if thats the way they want to be!? well if the crazy celebs straighten themselves out what's everyone going to read? and if say all the polititions loosen up, well quite frankly we are completly fucked. my point being, no one should think they have the right to dictate over others.

fucking hell i sound like a forty year old ranting. this has to be my longest blog to date, and i've only bothered to write it to put off doing any revision.